Sermon Guide

Building Strong Families: Faith, Discipline, and Intentional Presence

October 6, 2024
Dr. Allen Holmes
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David’s life began with success and faithfulness, but poor choices and neglect led to family dysfunction and tragedy. This week’s story highlights key parenting principles like modeling Godly behavior, cultivating sibling love, disciplining with care, and being actively present. It also stresses the need for open communication, intentionally pursuing children, and drawing support from a faith community.

REVIEW: Starting Strong, Finishing Well

  • READ: 2nd Timothy 4:7 - "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." 
  • DISCUSS: David’s story begins with great strength, but his commitment falters along the way. Why do you think staying faithful over time can be so challenging? What are some ways we can keep our relationship with God strong throughout life?

REVIEW: Loving Discipline in Parenting

  • READ: Hebrews 12:11  – "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it."
  • DISCUSS: David’s lack of discipline for his children had serious consequences. How can we balance love and discipline to train children in righteousness? What are some challenges or approaches to practicing this in everyday life?

REVIEW: The Power of Presence

  • READ: Matthew 28:20 – "And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."
  • DISCUSS: David’s absence from his children’s lives hurt them deeply. How does being present impact children’s growth and confidence? What are some simple but effective ways we can show up consistently for those we care about?

REVIEW: Creating an Open Dialogue

  • READ: Proverbs 20:5 – "The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out." 
  • DISCUSS: David avoided difficult conversations, which only worsened his family’s issues. Why is open communication important in healthy relationships? How can we encourage open dialogue, especially when addressing challenging topics?

  ASK:

What else did you get from this week's sermon? What actions or next steps can you take to apply it to your life?

  PRAY:

"Lord, thank You for the example of David’s life, showing us both the beauty of starting strong and the challenges we face along the way. Help us to model Your love, wisdom, and presence in our families and communities, that we might live out what we hope to teach. Give us strength to discipline with love, courage to communicate openly, and grace to be fully present in our relationships. May we grow in Your likeness each day, leading those around us closer to You. Amen."

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